3. What, for Randy, is a major component that is lacking in this relationship?

To this question, I drew the 5 of Wands.

In the 5 of Wands, the figures on this card are clearly at cross-purposes with each other. Whatever else is going on beneath the surface, there is, as one author suggests, “no cohesion, consensus or unifying force.” Cooperation, agreement and coordinated effort are lacking. And whether or not there is actual “battling” going on, it seems that instead of camaraderie, there is competition - or perhaps a deadlocked situation where each person is only held at arm’s length, but no one truly gains any ground.